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Walk it like you talk it
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: What can you do about the fucking wankers? I am truly sick of them.
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Walk it like you talk it
Not cut out to start at the bottom
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I am very sure that I am a top. The other side of BDSM holds no erotic charge for me at all.
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Not cut out to start at the bottom
A mark is a permanent record
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I very stupidly allowed my last master to have his name tattooed on my thigh. Why would he do this to me if he was just going to throw me out a few months later, claiming I had no potential to become a lifestyle submissive? It took me more than a year to get back to a stable place emotionally and financially
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A mark is a permanent record
Don’t want to play a perpetual student
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick, I have been a member of the kink scene since my twenties. I am now in my mid-forties, and still have memberships in a few of the larger groups and make a round of the clubs from time to time. I very much want to continue to be a part of the community
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Pushing the Limits
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick Is it normal for someone to play at heavier and heavier levels as they are in the scene? I find myself doing things that I wouldn’t have thought possible in the beginning. Sometimes it scares me a little, or I feel ashamed the next day
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Online and Offline, That is The Question
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick, I recently struck up an acquaintance with a young lady online who said that she had four years of experience as a “sensuous female dominant.” Because she talked a good game, I agreed to meet her, and it was a disaster.

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Online and Offline, That is The Question