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Ask Patrick: Don’t upset the baby
Posted by: | CommentsPatrick: I was shocked and upset by your column about the married couple who were fighting about the husband’s involvement in adult baby activities. You stereotyped this fantasy as ‚”fetish‚” and pathologized it by saying it was the result of unmet developmental needs during early childhood. Then you proceeded to validate his wife for her intolerance toward her husband
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Ask Patrick: Don’t upset the baby
ASK PATRICK: In BDSM, Slave chooses Master, not the other way around
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I am a slave girl who is owned by two masters. I should say ‚”was owned‚” because they are breaking up. The house is going to be sold, and they will use the proceeds to go their separate ways
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Ask Patrick: Can’t afford a baby
Posted by: | CommentsPatrick: My husband is an adult baby.
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Ask Patrick: Can’t afford a baby
Ask Patrick: Scared to be a SuperMasochist?
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I am concerned that every time I play, I seem to require higher levels of pain.
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Ask Patrick: Scared to be a SuperMasochist?
Build Trust
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I wish to be consecrated to the Vampire Lord who rules this city. By doing so, I would join a family of donors who keep their blood in a pure state so they can instantly gratify His needs
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Build Trust
Walk it like you talk it
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: What can you do about the fucking wankers? I am truly sick of them.
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Walk it like you talk it
Not cut out to start at the bottom
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I am very sure that I am a top. The other side of BDSM holds no erotic charge for me at all.
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Not cut out to start at the bottom
A mark is a permanent record
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick: I very stupidly allowed my last master to have his name tattooed on my thigh. Why would he do this to me if he was just going to throw me out a few months later, claiming I had no potential to become a lifestyle submissive? It took me more than a year to get back to a stable place emotionally and financially
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A mark is a permanent record
Don’t want to play a perpetual student
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick, I have been a member of the kink scene since my twenties. I am now in my mid-forties, and still have memberships in a few of the larger groups and make a round of the clubs from time to time. I very much want to continue to be a part of the community
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Don’t want to play a perpetual student
Pushing the Limits
Posted by: | CommentsDear Patrick Is it normal for someone to play at heavier and heavier levels as they are in the scene? I find myself doing things that I wouldn’t have thought possible in the beginning. Sometimes it scares me a little, or I feel ashamed the next day
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